Eureka Springs Wedding Ministry

Second, Third Time Around?

admin — Tue, 02 Aug 2011 17:27:53 +0000

Some years back a friend was filling for divorce. Having been married in the Catholic Church some family members, as you might imagine, were particularly nasty toward him and shunned him with the exception of his mother. She told him that Pearl Buck offered a good dose of sanity when she wrote that people should have three marriages (at different times, of course).

One marriage for the child rearing years, a second for the mid-life cavorting years and a third for the graying years.

The child rearing years are also a time of accumulating. A home, security, Higher education, set backs, gains, chauffeuring the kids. We become so absorbed in that process that our sense of self becomes obscure. We come to believe that we are about doing rather than being.

Then along comes mid-like and just being wants some satisfaction. We want quiet, fishing, camping, time to enjoy the fruits of our labors. Maybe one partner has a reluctance to that change which frustrates the other partner or spouse. The only alternative seems to be separation. But is that really so?

Renewal of Vows can save a lot of grief and remorse if we contemplate the deeper meaning of the renewal and see it as an initiation into a new phase where the deep down yearning for answers to “What is My Life Purpose” can serve as keys to unlock the beauty of our shared accomplishments.

Testimonial and Comments

admin — Mon, 01 Aug 2011 22:41:52 +0000

Hi Tom ~ We made it back to Texas, and yes, still happily married

I truly wanted to Thank You again from the bottom of both our hearts. We look at the pictures and remember you and your wife so fondly. Your both wonderful people and you helped create the beginning of something wonderful!!!

Always!

Paula Chavez

Like the old Paula, as the Apache Blessing says: “May your days be good and long on Earth.” I can’t begin to tell how deep my joy to have been a part of your new life. All the best to the four of you, Rowdy and Dusty. They’re great kids.

Love and Blessings,

Tom

My favorite quote

Live your life in such a way that when your feet hit the floor in the morning, Satan shudders and says, “OH @#$@#$ SHE’S AWAKE!”

Thought you might enjoy that!! :

Paula

Choices

admin — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 20:22:52 +0000

The most difficult part of relationships is voluntary. We choose what worn out, moth-eaten garments we bring to a new relationship. Or we choose polished and refined jewels to bring to the Altar of Life.

Why celebrant?

admin — Thu, 28 Jul 2011 19:46:34 +0000

The title “celebrant” is probably most familiar to to those with a Catholic or Anglican background where marriage is a holy sacrament, a right of passage.

The coming together of two people with a heart felt commitment to walk the road of life together is a sacred event. While scriptures, poems and songs add beauty and depth to your ceremony

Blog – coming soon!

admin — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 15:40:34 +0000

Yes, we will be posting some things from Tom here in this blog area…please check back. Here’s a quote in the meantime…

To get the full value of joy
You must have someone to divide it with.
~ Mark Twain

Beaver Lake wedding

admin — Sun, 24 Jul 2011 15:30:56 +0000

The Chavez wedding party was July 22, 2011. Family and friends gathered in the late evening at Prairie Creek park on Beaver Lake.

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Beaver Lake area July wedding outdoors

admin — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 20:00:39 +0000

The Hendersons were married on July 9th at an outdoor ceremony in the Beaver Lake area. It was in the 90′s but a lovely ceremony.

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Magnetic Springs June wedding

admin — Sun, 10 Jul 2011 19:48:09 +0000

The Ridleys were married on June 4th at Magnetic Springs Park in Eureka Springs.

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Waterfall & Fish Pond

admin — Sat, 04 Jun 2011 13:26:45 +0000

at Benton Place Inn

Magnetic Springs Park

admin — Fri, 03 Jun 2011 20:42:25 +0000

A favorite spot for wedding/ renewal of vows. Cave-like grotto, covered pavilion and parking.